I just think that the things you've had to do without really being given a choice shouldn't outweigh the good things you've done for us because you wanted to.

[it's slightly morbid, but:]

A lot more of us would probably be dead if you weren't help us with first aid and patching us up. And even besides that...you're important to people. I don't know if I could talk to other people about some of the things I've told you the way I've been able to talk to you.